Have you ever wondered what happens in couples counselling? I've often noticed people are curious about what happens behind the closed doors of a relationship counselling office or during online relationship counselling. Perhaps there's the intrigue about what relationship issues and relationship concerns people are divulging to me in their … [Read more...] about 10 Things to Expect in Couple Counselling
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12 Myths About Sex [Infographic]
There are so many myths out there about sex that get spread, that it's sometimes hard to know what to believe. So I just loved this infographic when I came across it because it addresses some of them in a clear and concise way. While this infographic is primarily focused on heterosexual sex, it still reveals some interesting data about how we … [Read more...] about 12 Myths About Sex [Infographic]
Healthy Relationships and Relationship Counselling: An Interview by Ben Starr of The Conversation Arena
I was recently interviewed by Ben Starr of The Conversation Arena for their popular podcast of the same name. Ben wanted me to speak specifically about relationships and relationship counselling. In this interview, he asks me: Why do relationships cause so much pain? How much impact do your parents have on your overall view … [Read more...] about Healthy Relationships and Relationship Counselling: An Interview by Ben Starr of The Conversation Arena
Gay Relationships: Why Are They So Difficult?
Why do gay men have problems sustaining long-term intimate relationships? It's a big question with no simple answer, but there are lots of reasons that contribute to the difficulties that gay men have in finding a long-term partner. Chicago therapist Brian Rzepczynski is known as The Gay Love Coach, and he recently interviewed me on the … [Read more...] about Gay Relationships: Why Are They So Difficult?
Is He Obsessed with Control? You Could be Dating a Narcissist
I recently had the pleasure of writing for a great site called DatingAdvice.com that focuses on articles to support those people in the dating game. I wrote about some of the tell-tale signs you might be dating a narcissist. Often when you're dating someone and only just getting to know them, it can be hard to know much about who they are and … [Read more...] about Is He Obsessed with Control? You Could be Dating a Narcissist
Alcohol Abuse: The Facts on How it Affects Your Relationship
Alcohol abuse has been big news in Australia lately. If you haven't noticed, you've probably been living under a rock. The topic of alcohol-fueled violence has been a hot topic on the radio, television, and chat shows across the country. And it's no surprise considering the number of young people that have been either killed or permanently brain … [Read more...] about Alcohol Abuse: The Facts on How it Affects Your Relationship
Is it Time Your Relationship Had a Digital Cleanse?
I'm very excited to share my first guest post for the Love and Life Toolbox, which is owned by well-known U.S. marriage and family therapist Lisa Kift. I've always been impressed by Lisa's passion for sharing information to help people build better relationships and improve their emotional health. I recently partnered with Lisa, so I can offer … [Read more...] about Is it Time Your Relationship Had a Digital Cleanse?
Porn Addiction: Is There Really Such a Thing?
I watched the movie Don Jon last weekend and thought it was an interesting commentary on modern-day relationships, and the impact of porn on a relationship. This romantic comedy is written and directed by Joseph Gorden-Levitt, who also plays the main character Jon Martello- a modern-day take on Don Juan. He has a list of things he really … [Read more...] about Porn Addiction: Is There Really Such a Thing?
How Porn Sex is Changing Real Sex Lives
There's no doubt that the instant availability of porn through the Internet is changing our attitudes towards sex and porn. If you wanted to obtain pornography in decades past, you had to risk being seen slipping into a seedy-looking sex store, often in a grungy part of the city. The potential for shame was often a barrier to consuming porn, plus … [Read more...] about How Porn Sex is Changing Real Sex Lives
The 10 Commandments for Relationship Essentials
Relationships are fun, loving, and fulfilling, but they also need a structure - a framework on which behaviours and expectations are based and followed. Psychotherapist Dr Stan Tatkin has developed a set of ten commandments to guide couples through the process of building and maintaining a strong foundation in their relationship. These essentials … [Read more...] about The 10 Commandments for Relationship Essentials